
Racing along the boulevard in my Corolla at speeds exceeding 35 MPH made
reading the church sign’s new slogan almost impossible. But, hey, I was late for
a lunch meeting at the sushi restaurant. My teriyaki bento box was whining for my hungry
presence. I sped on!
The church slogan read:
“A RELATIONALLY ENGAGED AUTHENTICALLY LOVING CHURCH”
And “AUTHENTICALLY” hitched a ride to sushi with
me since “Authenticity” is the theme of this post.
So, on my way home, I pulled into the church driveway, got out, and took the
slogan photo you (hopefully) see at the top of this post.
In the old days (the 50s and 60s) growth-minded churches called themselves
“friendly.” That was radical. Bible-thumping hellfire messages
weren’t working as well to draw a crowd—new methods seemed needed.
It’s intriguing to read “a relationally engaged authentically loving
church.” It’s a thoughtful approach to the “friendly” church. I am
appreciative of the prayer and discussion that went into creating it.
I’ve always struggled with the way to reach out to others.
When I started in ministry 50-plus years ago I was trained that church size
matters, bigger is better, and faster is finer. My role models were big-name
speakers with the fastest-growing churches.
I swallowed that bait—hook, line, and sinker. 15 years into taking the bait and surrounded
by “success” the big-tent church world I’d gulped down created indigestion and pain.
And that’s when Authenticity became more interesting to me.
Nowadays, I’m super-intrigued with what Jesus was after when he taught: “For
where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.” (Matthew
18:20, ESV)
Jesus’ church-slogan sign might read, “I’ll be with two or three who
want to be with me.”
Imagine a church of two or three. How would that be? I mean if we really
called that gathering church.
I believe it’s a great “lab” for Authenticity.
Authentic is defined as: “Not false or copied; genuine; real: an authentic antique.
having an origin supported by unquestionable evidence; authenticated; verified:
an authentic document of the Middle Ages; an authentic work of the old
master.” Dictionary.com
We become authentic as we become more loving and more truthful.
Other methods seem to result in pretense, chaos, and corruption.
Paul of Tarsus proposes: “That we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and
carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in
deceitful schemes. Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in
every way into him who is the head, into Christ,” (Ephesians 4:14–15, ESV)
Is the laboratory petri-dish for authenticity found in churches
of two or three? And, is small the new big?
I can only imagine.
Giv’m heaven,
John Parker, Your Neighbor
Please write me at: Coachingparker@gmail.com
Or, comment below
You left me hangin’ – did you attend? Was it authentically engaging? I’m on the edge of my seat : )
Thanks, Jim.
I am part of the JZG (Jesus Zoom Gathering) on Sunday mornings. It’s totally interactive and we all (3-8 of us) align with BYOC (Bring You Own Communion) and remember the Lord that way!
I just did that “accidental” drive-by regarding the unnamed church, and I really respect their efforts at communicating.
Thanks for asking! — John
Authentically loving ❤️ what a perfect name! It sums up the ministry of Christ – Love God with all of your heart and Love each other❤️
Thank you John ! I appreciate your teachings!
Thank you, Carolyn! My Pleasure! Thank you for your encouragement.
“Authentic” by whose standards? What’s been done for 500 years in a pulpit building or God’s instructions obeyed – the opposite of a sermon?
Hebrews 10:24-25
24 AND LET US (all of us)
CONSIDER HOW (prepare in advance of meeting)
to stir up ONE ANOTHER (no lecture)
to LOVE AND GOOD WORKS, (not merely more knowledge)
25 not neglecting to MEET TOGETHER, (not just being in the same room)
as is the habit of some,
but encouraging ONE ANOTHER, (again, no sermon)
and ALL THE MORE
as you see the Day drawing near.
Isn’t a claim to “authenticity” that is not authentic by God’s plan just another lie?
A sweet sounding pitch but really no authenticity to the claim to authenticity.
I would like to swing in and plant this seed of “the word of God” after the sermon is over and see if they are authentic enough to discuss God’s plan versus theirs. Maybe we should both go in together and sit on different sides and see who God connects us to.
Thanks, Tim. Authenticity is the challenge!